Interview with Monash University
Journalism Undergrad
What is 'dollies gone wild' all about?
We're a clique of close knit friends who have known one another for
sometime. Our group name "dollies gone wild" suggests our scripted
behaviors on the IRC (internet relay chat). We create several
alter-egos ranging from the young, old, pregnant, and diseased. We get
into character with these alter-egos, only chatting with males who
initiate a chat with us. The alter-egos we use are not fixated to age
ranges, we differ it and adjust according to different men who chat us
up.
What is your purpose of setting up this blogsite?
We set up this blog site to create awareness amongst females
regardless of age that the internet relay chat, a presumed zone for
making friends through interests and getting to know more people the
decent way is only a mask. Behind this mask lie the majority of males
who enter the IRC looking for a cheap fling, one night stands, cyber
sex, phone sex and other sexually stimulating activities with willing
or na�ve female counterparts. This blog highlights the chats and
similar methods in which the males use to exploit the minds of females
on the chat channels. Thus far, our crew has slipped through channels
as ordinary females waiting for males to click on us. Some males start
off with asking for an introduction while there are the bolder ones
who shoot off digits suggesting payment for sexual services if we
provide any. We realized how bad the situation was becoming when every
guy was only interested in talking about sex or looking for someone to
have sex with. This issue hit a cord in us females as we all felt
thoroughly insulted by the fact that these men seemed to treat us like
easy toys they can get their quick pleasure by. There was not a single
guy we spoke to during the span of 3 months of undercover work who
wanted a decent chat or wanted to get to know us better for at least
more than 5 minutes before jumping into sexual topics. Consequently,
our resentment for such behavior males were showing towards females
made us more fervent in creating a blog to shame them and use them as
examples to raise awareness amongst particularly other teenage girls
who are beginning to explore the world of net meeting and internet
friend-making. The media always advises and warns people about the
dangers of internet chatting and such but they never once projected
the seriousness of this issue that men are exploiting the females
through chat rooms.
How do you make sure that the photographs that you snapped are indeed
sexual predators?
The males whom we meet up with and have their pictures posted up are
mostly those who we deem have committed "moral wrongs". Our definition
for "moral wrongs" would be the men who have broken vows, the law in
order to satisfy their own sexual gratifications. The only example we
have of a meet up with a sexual predator so far is the married male
whose pictures we have splashed on our blog. This man is married of 3
yrs and asked a girl (us), 19, whom he 'knew' in less than 20 minutes
for sex. Our team felt that he was being unfair both to his wife and
to the girl. We requested for a picture from him after which, we study
the picture and when we called him to confirm the meeting; we made
sure he described exactly what he would be wearing. We matched his
dressing with his face when we met up with him. We also did question
whether he will be coming alone or with friends. We only meet up with
men with pictures as we do not like to be going for a blind meeting
not knowing who we will be meeting and snapping pictures of.
What is your personal opinion of such social phenomenon (that young
males and females are increasingly sealing a sex trade on the internet
chat room)?
We feel that the spread of technology and its easy accessibility has
resulted in a more open society where sexual topics are no longer
taboo. Males can gain easy access pornography and R21 movies through
illegal means or through friends sharing files over the internet.
These media portray the norm of one night stands, having sex with
people they barely know and such. Such portrayal leads to males
assuming that females in their own society can also be treated the
same way. The chat room makes the deal even easier to request as both
parties are hidden behind screens. Men become bolder when anonymous
and abuse the use of the internet chat room to the solicitation of
sexual activities and conversations.
Do you think the fault lies entirely with the male or are both parties
involve in making a successful sex trade to be blame?
In a successful sex trade, it takes two hands to clap. No one party is
completely blamed unless it was a non-consensual sexual agreement.
However, there have been cases where the males urge the females out
for an innocent meeting of a movie or coffee later resulting in male
pursuit in sexual activities during the meeting. For such a case, it
would be the males to blame as the request to go out for an innocent
meeting is misleading. Males should be responsible make sure that the
girls whom they have asked for sex are of legal age or else whether it
is a consensual or non-consensual meeting, it will be considered
statutory rape.
If you do not think the male is to be blamed entirely, how do you
justify your actions of publishing the male's photo?
Our actions of publishing the male's photo particularly in the morally
wrong situations for instance the set of pictures you see in the men
who offered sex to underaged girls. For such cases we'd blame them
entirely as they are aware of legal age for girls to begin sexual
activities.
Do you think your actions will have any impact on the behaviour of
males looking for sex trade on the internet chat rooms?
We are hoping that by shaming them publicly on the blog, these males
will realize that females cannot be judged too quickly and are not as
na�ve as they think. Both the males and females will also be more
cautious in providing information about themselves and pictures as
well. The males will take more time to know the girls before
initiating sex if they still have it in mind. More girls too will be
cautious and probably avoid the IRC or know recognize patterns which
they have noticed in the blog; how the males evolve their
conversations to one on sex. As a result, there might be a possibility
of decrease in such incidents happening.
Are you aware of the legal consequences of your actions?
Yes, we are aware that we can be sued if any of the pictures posted
are not sent by the chatter. We have saved all chat logs and those
which indicate their sending pictures, we have also saved it for
evidence. Therefore, if there were to be any suing involved, we will
be ready with all the proof. Presently, there are no entrapment laws
in Singapore.
Could you give some advice to young readers on the consequences of
having sex trade with people they know from the internet?
The people behind the screen can lie smoothly and are not as
trustworthy as they are perceived to be. As illustrated, we have
proven ourselves as different people to the men and they never
question the reliability of our particulars; smooth lies. Sex with a
stranger off the net may result in the contraction of sexually
transmitted diseases as well if not careful as we are not completely
sure of the person's sexual history. When net-meeting someone
especially of the opposite sex, go in a group, never alone. An
innocent meeting of a coffee or movie after the first chat may not
turn out as expected, so always be prepared, always in groups, never
alone. Once alone, the predator can lean in for the 'kill'.
Lastly, are there any other comments that are important that you would
like to add?
This blog has an added entertainment to allow readers to introduce it
to others, in turn creating a wider circle of awareness. It is proven
that humor can inject better learning, understanding and interest in
the subject than if its mundanely drilled into the minds of the
public. With irony and twisted humor injected into the blog, readers
leave with the need to come back and read more rather than just read
it today and forget it tomorrow.
When our team logs onto the IRC, we do not use misleading IRC
nicknames like "hotbody" or "sexygirl" to chat up guys. With IRC
nicknames like these, it is clearly showing our purpose in the
channel. Our purpose is not to seek out the guys who are lured by our
nicknames. We log in using IRC nicknames like common names, sports eg,
"jenniferr", "tennisgirl", "Melissa". These nicknames indicate decency
and are not nicks with an intention for attention from males.
Link this blog up!
spit it to her!
kinky-keyboard mumblings: privates2webwhore@yahoo.com.sg
she left that guy dangling naked, with nowhere to hide his bits 3:10
PM
WebWhore
who's your [DEL: daddy :DEL] mama?
_that sexy devil behind the screen_
A crew of girls setting out to fish out the moral wrongs of internet
meetings and what really goes on during the chat.
These men have shamed the name of the male gender.
Regardless of legal or illegal age for the males requesting for sex,
it is a downright insult to females to have men asking for sex within
2 mins into an introduction.
Females deserve more respect than being used as a sex toy, satisfying
male sexual urges.
We bring to you the uncensored ugliness of the internet chatzone that
the media has failed to bring to our attention
Society may be more open today but it does not give anyone the right
to assume that females can be treated as commodities that can be
bought off the shelf nor that females are stores which men can walk in
and out of whenever they fancy.
UPDATES! (23 Feb 2007)
We'll be on Channel News Asia's Blogtv.sg
Watch for what others and we have to say on 27th Feb (next tuesday),
8.30pm
this blog should serve as an educational eye opener to the singapore
virtual chatzone particularly to the young ladies exploring the world
of net-meeting
This blog is crude, obnoxious and does not care for any resemblance in
chat patterns observed. Thats how the real world is like
What you see may not be what you get
this site serves as a warning to all the men out there
that whoever you're chatting with might not
be a sweet pussy but a conviving one
Whatever your mother tells you about the
dangers of internet chatroom meeting...
...she is not joking nor exaggerating
enjoy your stay here.
Get to know more about why, how, when this blog was created and its
aims before e-mailing any questions:
Click:Interview by Cowboy Caleb
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The Classics
* An Introduction
* Parasite
* She sucks
* Engrish please
* Confused Genders
* Please french me
* The Wanking Phildophile
Hall of Shame
* married and meeting
* xxxposed files # 1
* explioted underaged
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